Don’t Come to Me with a Problem!

Don’t Come to Me with a Problem!

Most of us have difficulty articulating our struggles in a public forum, especially in the presence of our boss and peers. This probably stems from history we may have with bosses who said things like: “Don’t come to me with a problem, come to me with a solution!”...
11 Guidelines to Being an Influence

11 Guidelines to Being an Influence

You May Not Be In Charge, But You Can Influence the People Who Are “The great majority of people tend to focus downward. They are occupied with efforts rather than results. They worry over what the organization and their superiors ‘owe’ them and should do for them....
Are You Unhappy In The Best Part Of Life?

Are You Unhappy In The Best Part Of Life?

After meeting new people, they note the abnormal amount of happiness that exudes from me and then ask how and why I’m so happy. The first response is, “I woke up this morning; whatever happens after that is my choice. If I choose to have a fantastic day, then I will....
Be Nice, You Won’t Finish Last

Be Nice, You Won’t Finish Last

“Be kind to everyone on the way up; you’ll meet the same people on the way down”, Wilson Mizner Firstly I’d like to get two things clear, I’m not saying I’m a nice guy although I do try to treat people with respect, the same way that I’d like to be treated; I suppose...